Finding the perfect mixed doubles partner can be almost as challenging as finding “the one.” With different personalities, strengths, and playing styles, it’s not always easy to find someone who complements your game and helps you work toward that gold-medal finish in a tournament.

Anna Bright shared that she experimented with different partners last year while searching for the right fit. For women looking to do the same, Bright recommends first understanding your own game so you can find a partner whose style matches it well.

“Before you can really find the right mixed partner, it’s really important to have a clear idea of your own game and how you like to play optimally,” she explained. “Especially because the men take a different amount of the court, you have to figure out what kind of amount you’re comfortable with.”

Marcela Hones, who is also in a relationship with Rafa Hewett, revealed that they’ve found it works best for them to support each other from the sidelines rather than compete together on tour. Hones also shared her perspective on the qualities she looks for when choosing a mixed doubles partner.

“I like a person who tries all the time, who’s always giving it their all even if we’re down. It can be defeating when we’re down 10-0 and it can be hard to dig out of it, but I like when my partner is still trying up until the end. I think that’s amazing,” said Hones. “I also like a fast-paced game, so whoever has good drives and likes to move quickly, if they’re supportive, play fast, and always try their best, that’s a good partner for me.”

Like many pros, Michael Loyd competes with a variety of partners throughout the year. The key quality he values most in a partner is adaptability.

“I’m someone who doesn’t want to play one way,” he said. “I’ve been known to hop on the right if I need to, so I think being adaptable and being able to do different things is super important.”

For Loyd, however, it ultimately comes down to personality and compatibility.

“At the top of the list is vibes. Let’s have a good time, because at the end of the day, this is a game. I know it’s a sport and it’s our job, but I’m pretty sure most of us are not going to look back on this in 20 years and remember every single win,” emphasized Loyd. “We’re going to remember the good times and the fun, so I like a partner who’s aligned with me on that.”

Alli Phillips echoed Loyd’s sentiment.

“I look for a partner who’s positive, because if you’re not having fun out there, why are you doing it?” she concluded. “I love the team aspect of the game, and if you and your partner can just laugh and have a good time, it gives you more confidence and more chemistry, and then you play better.”

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